Traditional African clothing is typically vibrant and colourful. The practice goes back 3,000 years, predating both Christianity and Islam. Madison, Wisconsin: University of Wisconsin Press. Also, it serves as a tool against easy divorce. However, if there were children born in that marriage, bridewealth was not to be returned; If there were problems in the family, and the bridewealth was spent, it, somehow, forced the wife to continue staying in an abuse relationship; If bridewealth was given in livestock, if there was a disease, it could be easily lost; In case of the death of the wife before bridewealth was completed, it could create tension between the husband and late wife’s family concerning the place of burial; The institution of bridewealth could be used as a means of abusing and disrespecting the bride. In Sub-Saharan Africa where land was abundant and there were few or no domesticated animals, manual labor was more valuable than capital, and therefore bridewealth dominated. Dandora. Being married and to have children affects not only one’s earthly destiny. Bridewealth was an integral part of marriage procedures. Retrieved from, World Book, Inc.,. It meant that they followed local traditions. The researcher interviewed 13 people from the Luo community. Disadvantages: a father could ask for too much, people having difficulty to raise it and the payment of bridewealth was actually seen as a sign of marriage. This article investigates links between ilobolo (bridewealth) practices and marriage outcomes in contemporary Zulu society. 3). Mitchell, P. (1954). Some mentioned practical ways of accommodating the practice due to the difficult economic conditions that affect many young people. App.#, no. Then, bridewealth was to be returned to the family of the groom. The families dress in traditional and often colourful attire. App.#, no. The World Book Encyclopedia states that 40% of Africans identify as Christian while 45% are Muslim. These new ways would comprise the traditional understanding of bridewealth and take into account difficult life conditions of many young people in Nairobi that create an obstacle or make it even impossible to fulfill it. The practice of bridewealth was a means of ensuring the survival of the kinship, establishing very strong bonds between individuals and families coming from different clans, recognizing and legitimizing the marriage and ensuring a legal status of children born in that union and their right to inheritance (Kam, 2004, p. 4, Sakubu, 2003, p. 7). These reflections seemed the most important when reflecting upon the value and relevance of bridewealth. It still remains a relevant practice especially to parents whose children want to marry. As a result, the groom may have to get a loan and the new family would start their life with a significant amount of debts” (cf. Although many studies describe the particulars of the bridewealth transaction and emphasize its importance, there is little causal evidence of its effects. At home the gift ‘replaces’ her reminding the family that she will leave or has left and yet she is not dead… The gift legalizes her value and the marriage contract. Two respondents mentioned that “the father of the groom was supposed to provide at least one cow for bridewealth of his son. Furthermore, one of those similarities that holds across sub-Saharan societies is the use of bridewealth as a way of “creating alliances between kinship groups” (Anderson, 2007). 74-75). Payment of bridewealth gave the young couple an official permission to live together and have children (Mbiti, 1975, p. 108). Thirdly, animals served as evidence that bridewealth was paid. In her case, the payment of bridewealth remains an obstacle in formalizing their marriage – because it was not paid yet, they have no Church wedding. To most African populations, clothing is a significant and important part of the engagement ceremony and the religious marriage ceremony. Before the arrival of Europeans and their church (white wedding), the bride price was the way to go, to get married. The West African people of Ghana participate in marital customs that differ greatly from many other African countries. 8). The respondent mentioned the following advantages of bridewealth: It helps the groom and the bride in validating their state of life; It is a source of wealth, especially if the parents of the bride are poor and the parents of the groom are rich; It promotes a sense of justice: if the father of the bride did not pay bridewealth himself, he cannot ask it from the groom of his daughter; It is an obstacle in the Christian wedding because the payment of bridewealth is a pre-condition to marry in the Church; Some people ask for a lot of money as a payment of bridewealth; It may create the problems for the family of the girl if she wants to terminate the marriage and return home and they have already spent the bridewealth. Because of that, even if the couple lives in a union, they and especially, the groom cannot go to visit the parents of the bride because he would feel ashamed. He defined it as a ‘token given to the parents of the girl for migrating from her family to start another one’. Once it was given, it signified the permission of the parents of the girl to start living with the boy. Bridewealth stabilizes the marriage…” (1998, p. 90). In Africa, the prospective husband pays "Bride wealth" to secure a woman’s hand in marriage the exchange is so commercialized that the inflated costs of bridewealth leave the man with the distinct impression. (Eds. Other Africans are unable to participate in tribal or community centric ceremonies as they are required to move far from their community for employment. It points out to a certain dichotonomy between the traditional understanding and the practice of bridewealth; The respondents believed that the practice of bridewealth would continue. All three acknowledged that the payment of bridewealth was an obstacle in their marriage. Families are of supreme importance in Africa, and the bridewealth payment cements this relationship. By doing it, one was fulfilling his obligations towards God which made him to be at peace because he was promoting the life-force. Christianity has also had some negative influences because some Churches require a confirmation that bridewealth was paid. The researcher sees the flexibility of the practice as a major factor necessary to its survival. People bypass the obligation of bridewealth by living together and not paying it. Livestock was also a way of increasing personal wealth – it would usually multiply. His interest lies in investigating whether the contemporary understanding of bridewealth, with its various dimensions, among the Luo urban dwellers of Nairobi remains the same in comparison with its traditional meaning as found in literature. The researcher found that the understanding of bridewealth among the Luo residents of Nairobi was similar to the one found in books. It is a practice which has long been accepted by clan heads, chiefs and traditional rulers alike. [6] While this is not a custom of Islamic or Christian marriage, many Africans adopt the traditional practice into their communities creating a strong link between their primary religion and their traditional and cultural beliefs. … Kisembo claimed that “Modern Africa is witnessing a violent and far reaching process of social change’ (1998, p. 208). The spokesperson of the family would receive bridewealth from the family of the groom and give it to the father of the bride (cf. Langata, a 31 year old Luia man, cohabiting, was interviewed. App.#, no. During those interviews, an interview guide, especially prepared by the researcher, was used. [10] A large majority of these students defended their answer by stating that everyone has a father while not everyone has an uncle. 24.02.09, Tangaza. A 25 year old Kisii married lady was interviewed. This is where the bride inherits gifts from her family with the purpose of using them within her new home. 2 Luo men were interviewed: one was 43 years old, the other was 54 years old. At the same time, his father is to give one cow as a contribution to bridewealth. 8). However, he also mentioned that “It is not the amount of money that really matters but rather problems arise if the parents do not want to negotiate that amount”. The respondents appreciated the value that was traditionally attached to bridewealth and also were aware of the alterations in its application in modern Nairobi. It was “a way of showing respect towards the parents of the girl because an individual was paying for the expenses the parents had concerning their daughter” (cf. The researchers believe this may be due to a lack of support from their uncles with only 22% of students stating that their uncle had helped them throughout their education.[10]. It legitimizes the children of the union and confers legal rights over them upon the father. On the other hand, one person added that “some denominations try to do away with bridewealth believing that bridewealth was causing drift in families”. The effort of parents was appreciated in a very concrete form; The practice of bridewealth pointed out to the importance of traditions in the life of the community. [2] It is common practice in Africa to combine practices of major religions with local religious traditions. Bridewealth did not have to be paid in full. Marriage expresses one’s commitment to follow commonly accepted norms of the society of which one is a member. Another respondent said that “it was a token of thanksgiving. The Kisii couple was married for 1 year, the Taita couple for 17. Will be motivated solely by making the best financial arrangement they can. However, they were also aware of the fact that new factors influenced the practice of bridewealth, making it sometimes a very difficult obligation to fulfill. As a result, some engagements are broken, some couples elope and others live together, until they can afford dowry and a wedding while others register their marriages secretly” (2005, p. 54). Also the bridewealth received for his sister could be used. Prof Achola stressed that bridewealth protected both man and woman in marriage – one could not simply be ditched by the other. 2, 4). Once bridewealth was exchanged, marriage was official and was not be broken. The main limitation, according to the researcher, was the limited number of the respondents interviewed. Dandora. It bound two individuals, their families and even their communities. She claimed that it is the family of the bride that would go to the family of the groom to negotiate the amount of bridewealth. According to her, it is not necessary to provide an animal that would have to accompany bridewealth paid in cash. Among the Kipsigis, in negotiating the terms of the bridewealth payment, a woman's parents: Select one: a. These days money seems to be used a lot more. All these adjustments in the practice that take into consideration new circumstances, indicate to the researcher, that bridewealth will continue to exert influence. Bibliography of africa Count : 584 Bridewealth Project Africa Bibliography "L'option de la voie juridique". 10). Such an approach allowed the researcher to ask questions answers to which were not necessarily easy to quantify. Returning bridewealth meant dissolution of marriage. Both groups saw bridewealth and polygyny as instruments of male domination and sym-bols of women's inferior status. 19.03.09, Otiende. The parents of the groom would also actively participate in the process of bridewealth. People may then be involved with more partners and as a result it may contribute to the spread of AIDS. In that regard, one could conclude that paying bridewealth could be seen also a sacred duty. Some young people could not marry, either traditionally or in the Church, because they would not be able to raise it. 13). 17.01.09. The significance of marriage forming the foundation of a community is made obsolete if the couple were no longer a part of this community. Such an approach is seen as a way of avoiding commitment and contributes to the phenomenon of ‘come-and-stay’. Bridewealth (“nyombo” in Luo) was defined by her as. Without bridewealth, such an expression of commitment and responsibility may not be there. A 29 years old married Luo lady was interviewed. Elsewhere, Mbiti talked about bridewealth in terms of exchanging gifts which are asked by the parents of the girl from those of the boy (1975, p. 107). [10] The study revealed that men were more likely to want a traditional marriage than women. [1] The large size and extreme diversity of the continent leads to enormous diversity among the marriage ceremonies and traditions that take place. They defined bridewealth as money or a token of some kind as agreed upon that is given in exchange for the bride. It legalized the status of the wife, as well as of children and their rights. Mbiti defined it as “a token of gratitude on the part of the bridegroom’s people to those of the bride, for their care over her and for allowing her to become his wife. Bikorwomuhangi, E. (2005), “Traditional Marriage among the Luo of Kenya” In Katola, M(ed). On the part of the groom (“or”) the following could participate in it: elders from the family, the father, uncles and friends. Keeping in mind the type of data the researcher was interested in collecting, the researcher believed that semi-structured interviews would be the best choice. 122-127, Sakubu, 2003, p. 12). Bridewealth involved the parents of the girl. In that regard, bridewealth was an exchange and sharing of wealth. The reason that I use the term lobola rather than bridewealth is because it … They defined bridewealth in terms of a gift that the bridegroom gives to the parents of the bride, a payment that the bridegroom makes when he wants to marry a girl, a way of showing respect for the parents of the girl by providing them with money that they had spent on their daughter. Many advantages enumerated by the respondents have already been referred to. Waruta enumerated other reasons such as: introduction of monetary economies, the use of western education system, and a shift from kinship systems of relations to a more individualistic one (2005, p. 101). Marriage would be recognized as such only after the bridewealth has been given” (cf. App.#, no. In case of divorce, the bridewealth was to be returned, and often it was already used by the family of the wife – practice of bridewealth effectively encouraged the wife to stay in that relationship; A lot could be asked as bridewealth. Although bridewealth remains widely practised in Southern Africa, few studies have examined the custom in a contemporary context. The mother of the bride was the one to receive “ayie” (consent money). Changing Attitudes of Students in West African Society toward Marriage and Family Relationships. [7] It is cemented into their culture that marriage is about procreation and providing the child with an environment in which they can thrive. Even now, some animal is to be given as a part of dowry. App.#, no. Marriage is so pivotal in African societies and the marriage gift lies at its core that essentially, it can be said that marriage in many African societies is the rendering of the marriage gift to the family of the bride and the rendering of the marriage gift is marriage. A 35 year old Luo lady who was married for 10 years was interviewed. Another reason was that it gave some control to the wife –it could be a means of exercising some control, including threats, over the husband. In many traditional African societies the husband could not assume full rights to the sexual, economic, or procreative powers of his wife until a standard portion of the bridewealth had been transferred. Among advantages of the custom she enumerated: It was an official recognition of the marriage; official recognition of the status of the bride as a wife and of the children; If the wife died before the bridewealth was paid, the husband would have to pay it before he could be allowed to marry her – paying bridewealth was a way of avoiding future issues; It gave the wife respect – she was seen as a wife of so and so; It was also a sign that the lady was no more available for marriage to somebody else. One lady described it as follows: “the groom has to pay it because of my hardships involved in bringing my daughter up. He would be the one involved at all stages of the process. The complexity and importance of bridewealth and its practical relevance to the daily life in the contemporary society influenced the researcher’s desire to undertake a more deep study of this topic for his MA dissertation. One of them was related to the increasing role of money as the favorite means of paying bridewealth. The researcher believes that his field findings and literature findings, alongside with some parts of the presentation by Prof Achola are in basic agreement about the role of bridewealth and the difficulty it causes to some people in urban areas. Bridewealth could contribute to some psychological problems. About marriage. [5] The wedding will consist of more modern marital customs relevant to the religion of the participants families. Some would elope. That rope signifies that cow was given by the father. One could rely on others to support him. The respondents pointed out that the practice of bridewealth was undergoing some changes. African Bridewealth and Women's Status. In many cases those changes affected adversely traditional African values, including marriage, because the traditional structures were weakened and did not longer have the strength as they did in the past (Kisembo, 1998, p. 209). One responded said that “the more girls you have, the more wealth you will have in terms of cattle and goats” (cf. African customs create a rich culture. Other members of the bride’s family would also be involved in bridewealth. App.#, no. The Yoruba integrate many traditional Yoruba marriage customs (such as arranged marriages and bridewealth) into their Christian and Islamic ceremonies. Hence, bridewealth was contributing to wives staying in some abusive relationships; If the parents cannot agree about bridewealth, the young may have to wait till the parents are dead to formalize their relationship. 10). The amount paid depended upon the agreement between the two families, economic situation of the man and how much both families were attached to their local traditions. It also has ‘eternal’ consequences based on African beliefs in afterlife. Marriage to the Yoruba was not focused on love but rather on structure and order. Bride could be considered as a commodity that has been bought and hence could be treated as an object (cf. In spite of that, all would like to keep that practice –one of the reasons provided was that it was a custom and it could not be left out. A wide variety of cultural forms testifies to that richness. It has been pointed out that bridewealth was a practical expression of the gratitude of the groom and his family for having brought the bride up. The parents of the girl were the ones to agree on the amount of bridewealth to be paid. Will ask less for a highly educated woman who can earn her own living. A curse could also result from breaking certain taboos around bridewealth, like somebody eating the chicken prepared for the groom (cf. 06.02.09. Above, the importance of the marriage gift in relation to marriage has been emphasised. The changes taking place in the modern society challenge the practice. It affirms the marriage – it was like a ‘traditional certificate’ of marriage. According to her, the practice should be perpetuated though it should be made less strict by providing more room for the groom to contribute bridewealth. We argue that the payment of bridewealth from a man‟s to a woman‟s family triggers reciprocal obligations on the part of the woman. 3, 4). App.#, no. Educated parents might not be interested in receiving bridewealth. It suggests that the one function of bridewealth common to African societies is the legitimation of marriage, a function that enhances rather than diminishes the status of women in the African context. That understanding could be a reason to quote a relatively small amount to be contributed. River Estate. They are often encouraged against marrying for love or sexual attraction. Polyandry (multiple husbands) is very rare in Africa – e.g., Lele. It was confirming the importance of man as usually the most important person in dealing with important family matters; It was a practical way of appreciating the effort of the parents put into upbringing of their daughter. Africa has a population of over 1.2 billion people spread throughout 52 countries. b. Usually, when the mother received “ayie”, the close relatives would also receive some money in “bahasha” (envelopes). 108-109); Marriage being a duty that one was to undertake, and bridewealth being its necessary component, pointed out to the sacred dimension of life in Africa. App.#, no. 9). The respondents attested that if it was in their power to retain or to remove the practice of bridewealth, they would retain it. 05.02.09. Keeping in mind the small scope of this project, the researcher decided to use some elements of descriptive statistics in order to provide simple summaries of the findings. It was given to her because she would be the one being most affected by her daughter being taken away from her. Some African couples are opting to bypass the legal marriage status entirely and alternatively having irregular unions as a symbol of their love and connection. Bridewealth was traditionally seen as a sign of one’s commitment. Also bridewealth was seen as a necessary condition of marriage without which one would be cursed (cf. c. Will frequently forgo the payment if the man is nice. Other reflections could have been drawn that would reflect multidimensionality of the concept of bridewealth. It consists of an elaborate ceremony with heavy involvement from both families. It would be given in envelopes. The girl would also be involved in bridewealth. Again, such an approach confirmed Mbiti’ statement that “African are notoriously religious” (1969, p. I); Bridewealth negotiations mostly involved men. All respondents mentioned that bridewealth played an important role in the society. It’s especially widespread throughout sub-Saharan Africa and parts of Asia. Among the Luo, it was “an essential obligation that legitimizes an adult into … The World Book encyclopedia. It was a way of saying thank you and not a way of buying the girl” (cf. They are especially visible during the rites of passage. It was due to several factors. 79-85) claimed that delaying marriages due to various economic factors, including high amount of bridewealth, contributed to premarital sex, spread of STDs and HIV/AIDS. Population of Africa). According to the researcher, the most appealing explanation used by those authors to support this view was the one rooted in the fact that in the traditional African society the purpose of human existence was understood in terms of fostering life. It was “the most responsible phase in life” (Mbiti, 1975, p. 104). [11] Many Africans are unable to produce the money required to fund a traditional wedding and pay dowry. One refers to the African tradition of "bridewealth" i.e., the payment of dowry (so many cows or goats) by the man's family to the family of the girl whose hand he was seeking. Most of the respondents lived in unions, some for even for a long time, that would not be traditionally recognized as marriages. Such a situation contributes to the spread of promiscuity and HIV/AIDS (cf. He saw it also in terms of money generating approach which meant that a girl was, as if, sold to the other family. A 35 year old Luo lady who was married for 10 years was interviewed. It is of traditional belief that the child does not know when he is ready to marry, therefore the parents will make the decision for them. The Yoruba call this ‘Mo mi i mo e’ (know me and let me know you) while the Igbo call it ‘Ikutu aka n’ulo’ (Knock on the door). App.#, no. [9] When the parents believe the child is “ripe” for marriage, they will begin the process of seeking out a wife, often without the child knowing. it could be slaughtered for burial; If bridewealth was not spent, it provided an opportunity for the girl to come back to her parental home. Many people were involved in the process of bridewealth. Importance Of Bride Wealth In Bridewealth. One respondent said that “a lot can be asked. Those forms are expressed at various points in the life and an individual and the community as a whole. App.#, no. Puthenpurakal, S. (2005), “Marriage among the Luo of Kenya”, In Getui, M (Ed), In. Journal of Social Sciences and Public Affairs, 4(1), 94-104. 8). Shorter stressed it saying that: “Many individuals of the bridegroom’s family contribute to it and many individuals of the bride’s family benefit from it” (1998, p. 90).The members of the family and the community would participate at various stages. “Bridewealth goes with the groom or his family, and is paid to the bride’s family. They were married for a year. Some pointed out to the fact that Christianity is a factor influencing the practice. Among Southern Luo there was a type of marriage called ‘Por’. Jean-Baptiste, R., & Burrill, E. (2019). Cohabitation and elopement would be means used to bypass the obligation of bridewealth (Bikorwomuhangi, 2005, p. 4). That rope signifies that cow was given by the father. Much has been made of this system as a means of out-and-out purchase, and in some parts … Traditionally, bridewealth was paid by using cows and goats because people had no money. Are there any changes in the contemporary society that would affect the practice of bridewealth; What are the advantages of the practice of bridewealth; What are the disadvantages of the practice; Will the practice continue in the future. App.#, no. 14.02.09. One respondent said that: “it was a wealth for the family - they get animals, they get milk and respect in the village” (cf. Distribution of bridewealth among various members of the family of the bride pointed to its communitarian dimension. It is easy to see bridewealth as a purely or predominantly commercial transaction which is introduced into engagement and marriage in violation of human dignity. The practice is common in all parts of the globe in one form or another but, as an instrument for the legitimation of a marriage, is most highly developed in Africa. Ogbu, J. They would go to visit the family of the groom and would participate in choosing those who would be sent to the bride’s family to negotiate. 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